What’s Missing from the #MeToo Conversation

What’s Missing from the #MeToo Conversation

To end our epidemic of sexual violence, men need support in cultivating a new and complete sense of self. One that is not simply about removing harmful behaviors, but also about expanding our vision of what men can offer this world. To achieve this, men need help addressing the root of their own wounds, so that they can actually honor and repair others’ wounds as well. 

And, finally, to create a world where gender violence is a thing of the past, we need to listen more closely to transgender people about their experiences.

Worried About Called Out as a White Person? Read This.

Worried About Called Out as a White Person? Read This.

During this time of escalating polarization and disconnection, you've undoubtedly witnessed a social media call-out and take-down or two (or ten!). And, as a person committed to love and justice and community, it makes sense that you're worried about triggering this kind of response. In this piece, we go to the root of this fear, so we can come out on the other side, breathing easy & truly connected…

From Comment Crusader to Cultural Steward

From Comment Crusader to Cultural Steward

If the training had left some people out, the workplace would too. Relying on shame and dehumanization — however subtle or justified — as motivating tools of change will never resolve the patterns of isolation and exclusion we seek to address. They created those patterns in the first place. Viewing Diversity & Inclusion as an us vs. them quest to change some people's minds on behalf of others will not create the engaged, productive workforce we seek. It will only continue to amplify the feeling of uneasy disconnection that characterizes so many workplaces today.

5 Keys to Transgender Inclusion

5 Keys to Transgender Inclusion

Successful organizations know that welcoming transgender employees, clients, and community members is not simply about doing the right thing. It also boosts bottom line productivity and innovation, with gender-diverse companies outperforming their peers by 35% (McKinsey & Co, 2015). When people of all genders can show up as their authentic selves, everyone is more engaged, creative, and productive. 

What To Do Instead of Calling the Police

What To Do Instead of Calling the Police

We’ve all been there. Your neighbor is setting off fireworks at 3am. Or there’s a couple fighting outside your window and it’s getting physical. Or you see someone hit their child in public. What do you do? Your first instinct might be: call 911. That’s what we’re trained to do in the United States when we see something dangerous or threatening happening. But how do you keep yourself safe without seeking protection from a system that is still predicated upon the surveillance and extermination of others?